INDIVIDUALITY - A Mere Fiction

Whoa….its been a long time, while I had written a post, I wasn’t really getting time.  Let me start with my favorite quotations

“...people live their lives bound by what they accept as correct and true... that is how they define reality. But what does it mean to be correct or true? Merely vague concepts... their reality may all be an illusion.” 
― Kishimoto Masashi Uchiha Itachi - chapter 385

“Every human being relies on and is bounded by his knowledge and experience to live. This is what we call “reality”. However, knowledge and experience are ambiguous, thus reality can become illusion. Is it not possible to think that, all human beings are living in their assumptions?” 
― Masashi Kishimoto, Naruto, Vol. 42: The Secret of the Mangekyo

 OK, I will be straightforward; I didn’t find any appropriate subject to put pen to paper. However thanks to one my colleague, I got something from her. “When a beautiful girl with beautiful eyes speaks about INDIVIDUALITY in a random gossip, it’s obvious for any guy to keep nodding, as if they are right, and incase if you reply back to their views, you would look like a male chauvinist or someone who would never understand a woman.“

Now in my first para, I had used two words, “BEAUTIFUL” and “MALE CHAUVINIST”.

Whoever uses the social media a lot is obvious to be aware of these terminologies.

“BEAUTIFUL:  Pleasing an Individual’s senses or mind aesthetically.”

“MALE CHAUVINIST:  Men who denigrate women in a belief that they are inferior to men. “

The words which I have mentioned are relative. Both of them cannot exists without “UGLY” & the recently evolved social media vocabulary “FEMINAZI”, without the existence of the other one, individually they doesn’t have any worth, similarly a winner will never exist without a loser. Now does that mean, winners don’t get recognition without losers, or does that mean because of the existence of losers a winner exists?

It simply means both are depending on each other and there is nothing as a winner or a loser.  Each of them is nothing without the subsistence of the other. Or it’s our perception from one angle only.

Now let’s check from foundation, consider a simple Human being. Male/Female.  

He/She is a daughter, mother, wife, father, son, sister, brother and so on. From where are we getting these relations? For example: Without a son/daughter, a father/mother cannot exists & vice versa. In the same way a wife & husband cannot exists without each other presence and also genders cannot exists without each other existence.

YET WE STILL CRAVE FOR INDIVIDUALITY.

Now let’s go by Humans and animals, we keep using the word as Humanity! On what basis we speak about humanity? Humanity exists because there is animosity?  Well when an individual helps another individual we call it humanity. So what do we call when a Dog saves a live of a child?? Or what do we call when a leopard saves a life of a child orangutan.

SO WITHOUT ANIMOSITY, HUMANITY DOESN’T EXIST.

Now let’s get to the certain region, it’s obvious I would take the example of INDIA, since it’s my motherland.  And more expedient for me to elucidate

In INDIA, we have got many states, languages, castes, religions, and humans with different skin color, and so no. Now can anybody tell me is there anything which is Individual! I mean is there anything exists without the presence of the other one? Let’s take religions as an example.

I have no intention to hurt any Individual or community here

There are many religions, and every religion has a god. And every religion also has devil/Evil/Ravana/kamsa/Shaitaan/Satan/Illuminati.  Basically even god doesn’t have Individuality without the survival of devil.

A white skin colored person doesn’t exist without the existence of a Black person, so both depend on other continuation.  If all humans have same shade, then what will you describe them??  You won’t be able to invent any term for their skin color.

Now some of you may say that the God only created devil! But can anybody tell me Does anybody like creating enemies?  No right, then why god created the negative aspect of him?

TO GET TICKLED?

So Individuality doesn’t exist at a level of GOD & DEVIL, they both need each other just like BATMAN & JOKER who complete each other.

YET WE FRAGILE BEINGS ARE CRAVING FOR INDIVIDUALITY.

Let me take example of myself, In past I was called as “Vijaya Kumar Sir ka Beta” OR “Rajaram Ka Bhai” during my school days. You won’t believe that I used to hate it to core,  whenever someone used to call me like that, whether it is some faculty or a student….…..It’s was around 5^th or 6^th standard.  I used to crave for my own Individuality. However as time has passed, I feel without them I’m incomplete.  Even if my name is related to my mother or life partner, I will still say I’m incomplete without both of them.

Thinking about all this, I felt even the religions and the gods we speak really doesn’t exist. There is something much more beyond that which is handling each and every aspect present in this reality.

WHAT IS THAT? 

BUT THERE IS NOTHING AS INDIVIDUALITY.

Comments & opinion are welcome.