DECLINISM - Humanity, Culture & Everything.

I always say I have not written any post from a long time, But honestly I don’t get sufficient time to sleep or crap properly. OK Let it be.  None of your concern.

I don’t remember but somewhere I heard or read that “A Common man Contribution to a Society Is a Good Family with Morals and Ethics”.  May be I’m getting old, so I’m spouting stuff out of my personality.

So let me get fair and square to the point, 24HRS may be 30HRS before I was going through my Facebook news feed and I came across one news.

 “17-year-old kidnapped, raped by 4 men over 10 days in Whitefield lodge“

http://bangaloremirror.indiatimes.com/bangalore/cover-story/17-year-old-kidnapped-raped-by-4-men-over-10-days-in-whitefield-lodge/articleshow/61650643.cms?

I was bit stunned inside, since I was at my workplace I was calm and continued with my monotonous and boring work as usual.

 Now look at the map image below, my work location is hardly 20min from that lodge, but none knew what was going on. From October 26th to November 4th a girl was brutally raped by 4 men and none had a knowledge of it. 

What is happening in our motherland?? 

(The above pic is from a Movie “MOM”)

So guys, the most ironical thing in our country is when someone commits a crime, then every fucking citizen spouts “Don’t Blame a whole nation or religion or a region or a caste because of a few Incidents or because of few anti-social elements”.  But we all forget that those anti-Fucking socials elements are born among ourselves. 

And I feel like yelling all those people who defend it, “FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU, and FUCK YOU BASTARDS.” 

The horrendous crime which took place in your country, whoever did that, whether your neighbor or a fellow citizen, wherever that incident took place, let it be your locality, or street, city, state and Nation? If you cannot do anything then you are also guilt.

And unfortunately another similar answer we get to hear, “Law or Police or some vigilant NGO will take care.” But tell me one thing, what the fuck you will do if it was your own sister, cousin, girlfriend, fiance, female friend, classmate, and aunt, will you wait for someone else to come and defend you??  

Honestly If I had a license to execute, I would I have severed each vein with a scalpel, very slowly and patiently from their body and let them experience the pain they brought down to the victim and their family.  By severing each vein I would let them know the definition of PAIN. A PAIN of a father who earns everyday just to make sure that his daughter lives a luxurious life, a pain of mother who want her daughter to be reliable like her, a pain of a sibling who wishes happiness and prosperity in her life.

Let me tell you an incident which happened with me in 2013 June. I was in China, Nanjing, Me and my colleagues had left office around 1800Hrs that day, fortunately of course. And I happened to meet a Latin American and a Chinese girl in the metro rail, both were having conversation in English.  I kept listening to their conversation as both of them were really good by looks, especially the Latin one. So I took an opportunity and started conversing with both of them. For the first 15min our conversation was going well, and when I was asked where I came from, I said I’m from India, to my surprise the Latin girl who was standing a breath close to me had moved away position, though she kept talking but I could notice an unexpected change of development in her, she increased distance between us. Since I was not sure what to do I kept my posture firm and continued conversing with them.

 And when I came to my hotel, I called one of my school friend and narrated him about what happened that evening.  He told me that recently a foreign girl was abused in the Mumbai rail and she had written an article about the safety of females in our country. My friend also had faced a similar situation when he was introduced to a Non-Indian girl by his GF, the first question she asked him was, “India is a HELL for women” . He was speechless with that statement and utterly failed to defend it.

I know there is no conclusion I can come up for this kind of issues as there are innumerable, but I feel a bit of guilt when there was nothing much I could do though 

I was in a nearby location. 

I hope things change soon enough.

INDIVIDUALITY - A Mere Fiction

Whoa….its been a long time, while I had written a post, I wasn’t really getting time.  Let me start with my favorite quotations

“...people live their lives bound by what they accept as correct and true... that is how they define reality. But what does it mean to be correct or true? Merely vague concepts... their reality may all be an illusion.” 
― Kishimoto Masashi Uchiha Itachi - chapter 385

“Every human being relies on and is bounded by his knowledge and experience to live. This is what we call “reality”. However, knowledge and experience are ambiguous, thus reality can become illusion. Is it not possible to think that, all human beings are living in their assumptions?” 
― Masashi Kishimoto, Naruto, Vol. 42: The Secret of the Mangekyo

 OK, I will be straightforward; I didn’t find any appropriate subject to put pen to paper. However thanks to one my colleague, I got something from her. “When a beautiful girl with beautiful eyes speaks about INDIVIDUALITY in a random gossip, it’s obvious for any guy to keep nodding, as if they are right, and incase if you reply back to their views, you would look like a male chauvinist or someone who would never understand a woman.“

Now in my first para, I had used two words, “BEAUTIFUL” and “MALE CHAUVINIST”.

Whoever uses the social media a lot is obvious to be aware of these terminologies.

“BEAUTIFUL:  Pleasing an Individual’s senses or mind aesthetically.”

“MALE CHAUVINIST:  Men who denigrate women in a belief that they are inferior to men. “

The words which I have mentioned are relative. Both of them cannot exists without “UGLY” & the recently evolved social media vocabulary “FEMINAZI”, without the existence of the other one, individually they doesn’t have any worth, similarly a winner will never exist without a loser. Now does that mean, winners don’t get recognition without losers, or does that mean because of the existence of losers a winner exists?

It simply means both are depending on each other and there is nothing as a winner or a loser.  Each of them is nothing without the subsistence of the other. Or it’s our perception from one angle only.

Now let’s check from foundation, consider a simple Human being. Male/Female.  

He/She is a daughter, mother, wife, father, son, sister, brother and so on. From where are we getting these relations? For example: Without a son/daughter, a father/mother cannot exists & vice versa. In the same way a wife & husband cannot exists without each other presence and also genders cannot exists without each other existence.

YET WE STILL CRAVE FOR INDIVIDUALITY.

Now let’s go by Humans and animals, we keep using the word as Humanity! On what basis we speak about humanity? Humanity exists because there is animosity?  Well when an individual helps another individual we call it humanity. So what do we call when a Dog saves a live of a child?? Or what do we call when a leopard saves a life of a child orangutan.

SO WITHOUT ANIMOSITY, HUMANITY DOESN’T EXIST.

Now let’s get to the certain region, it’s obvious I would take the example of INDIA, since it’s my motherland.  And more expedient for me to elucidate

In INDIA, we have got many states, languages, castes, religions, and humans with different skin color, and so no. Now can anybody tell me is there anything which is Individual! I mean is there anything exists without the presence of the other one? Let’s take religions as an example.

I have no intention to hurt any Individual or community here

There are many religions, and every religion has a god. And every religion also has devil/Evil/Ravana/kamsa/Shaitaan/Satan/Illuminati.  Basically even god doesn’t have Individuality without the survival of devil.

A white skin colored person doesn’t exist without the existence of a Black person, so both depend on other continuation.  If all humans have same shade, then what will you describe them??  You won’t be able to invent any term for their skin color.

Now some of you may say that the God only created devil! But can anybody tell me Does anybody like creating enemies?  No right, then why god created the negative aspect of him?

TO GET TICKLED?

So Individuality doesn’t exist at a level of GOD & DEVIL, they both need each other just like BATMAN & JOKER who complete each other.

YET WE FRAGILE BEINGS ARE CRAVING FOR INDIVIDUALITY.

Let me take example of myself, In past I was called as “Vijaya Kumar Sir ka Beta” OR “Rajaram Ka Bhai” during my school days. You won’t believe that I used to hate it to core,  whenever someone used to call me like that, whether it is some faculty or a student….…..It’s was around 5^th or 6^th standard.  I used to crave for my own Individuality. However as time has passed, I feel without them I’m incomplete.  Even if my name is related to my mother or life partner, I will still say I’m incomplete without both of them.

Thinking about all this, I felt even the religions and the gods we speak really doesn’t exist. There is something much more beyond that which is handling each and every aspect present in this reality.

WHAT IS THAT? 

BUT THERE IS NOTHING AS INDIVIDUALITY.

Comments & opinion are welcome.